Hello my darling! Pleasure to have you today. If you are looking to level up in life and become a classy, elegant woman, you’ve come to the right place.
If you are new here, my name is Victoria and I created the Modern Elegance, Simplified course to teach women how to cultivate a life of elegance, class, and grace.
There is hypnotizing power in elegance. Especially in modern times when many people are drifting away from traditional values.
When done properly, elegance and class creates a force of mystery and desirability that is unlike anything else.
But becoming an elegant woman isn’t something that happens overnight, especially if it is a new concept for you.
Often as women get older, they tend to leave their old ways behind in pursuit of a new life of abundance and happiness. At least, that’s what happened to me.
I’ve always been obsessed and intrigued by elegance and the lifestyle of royal women, but it wasn’t until I was in my late 20’s that I realized that I could actually be that woman.
I think that is an issue that a lot of women have. They see something they want, or someone they want to be like and they immediately think to themselves “I could never be like that” and just dismiss it.
Elegance is an achievable task, if you are up for the challenge of a life transformation.
It is important to note that true elegance is different from an elegant appearance. We can all put on a pretty dress and do our hair, but living and breathing elegance and class is different.
Ever since I began my elegance journey my life has changed in unspeakable ways. It’s quite refreshing actually.
So today I’m going to be sharing 5 things that happen when you become an elegant woman.
People won’t recognize you.
I can actually say this from experience. I went to my friends college graduation party and I hadn’t seen her in a couple years. We have just been busy living our own lives. I parked my car and was walking toward the venue.
My friend was standing outside making sure her guests knew where to park and she spotted me from a distance.
“Victoria is that you?” She said as I got closer “I almost didn’t recognize you!”
It was my first time wearing a business suit. I wore a black pencil skirt, white blouse and lack blazer. I did my hair and makeup and to be fair I was kind of unrecognizable.
Nevertheless, that’s the exact reaction I was looking for.
I’m changing, evolving, growing, learning. I’m not the same person she saw a couple years prior. And I’m glad that I was unrecognizable.
This will happen as you evolve. Your friends and family will notice the change in your actions, appearance, your energy. They might make open comments about it, they might not. But trust me, they notice.
You gain more self esteem
There are many common issues that women face each and every day. A lot of them have to do with self esteem. Because we spend more time on social media than we ever have, people are slowly getting a distorted version of reality.
Here are just a few things women have to deal with:
- Body image.
- Financial pressure/keeping up with the Jones’s.
- Fashion and the pressure to have new clothes because you don’t want to repeat outfits on Instagram.
- Pressure of getting married, and having children.
When you become an elegant woman, these struggles slowly begin to fade. You become more confident in your body because you learn how elegant women care for their bodies.
You have a better chance of attracting a high value spouse because you have leveled up and are now operating on a different vibrational frequency.
You don’t worry about fashion as much because you are curating a timeless wardrobe fit for any occasion.
You fall in love with the person you are becoming because your progress is incredibly drastic and you notice new changes almost daily.
You appreciate the little things
Something I have really noticed since I started my transformation is how much I appreciate the beauty in the tiniest of things. I have fallen in love with the sunset, and the flowers in my yard bring me so much joy.
I appreciate laughter and love so much more than I ever have. I am realizing that elegant living is an art and it is up to me to create a masterpiece.
This will happen to you as you begin to change. It is absolutely delightful.
Low value people in your life will fade away.
As crazy as it is, there are high value people and low value people. I’m not saying that in a mean or snooty way. That’s just the way life works.
I teach this in the course, but as you become more elegant, your priorities, interests, hobbies, and your opinions will change.
Because of this, you will naturally start to drift away from the people who aren’t bringing value into your life.
Losing people in your life can be difficult, as you might have created lasting friendships with them, but just because you grow as a person doesn’t mean you can’t be friends. You just begin to want to be around other people who are trying to grow just like you.
There is nothing wrong with changing up your inner circle every once in a while. That’s the beauty of evolving.
You will start investing in yourself unapologetically.
Every time I purchase something that the old me would have never invested in, it becomes a little easier.
I used to have such a limited mindset. I didn’t need the finer things in life, I didn’t deserve to have certain things, having nice things was only for wealthy people and that wasn’t me. My mind was so small.
But over the years I’ve realizing that investing in myself is the best thing I could do for myself and I’m slowly paying more attention to my wants, needs, and everything in between.
You start to discover yourself
If there’s one thing that I didn’t expect to happen when I started this journey was how much I would discover about myself. I feel like I’ve gotten to know myself on such a deep level since I started taking steps to become classy and elegant.
I spent time identifying my passions, from things that I always knew I was interested, to things I saw in movies that I always thought was cool but never looked into it because I didn’t think it was possible for me.
I spend time doing things that I’m passionat about, like this blog. I’ve always loved being on the computer but this blog really gives me a space to share my thoughts and feelings, as well as help other women transform into absolute queens.
Your friends will be jealous.
I know I’ve mentioned this before about losing friends and people not recognizing you, but what about the people who remain in your life? Your best friends, your close family, close family friends. All of those people are going to to notice a dramatic change in your behavior.
You will probably low key inspire them to stat working on themselves, you’ll become their inspiration and if they are supportive friends, they will support your journey.
They will realize how much of a change you’ve made it will help realize that they can do the same.
And you might even make new friends along the way.
You will stand out because you aren’t trying to stand out.
You can spot a person who is thirsty for attention from a mile away. And everyone knows that person just needs people to focus on them, but when you become elegant, you will learn tricks to become the most desierable person in the room, even when you aren’t searching for attention.
People will want to know more about you, and theu will think about you when you are gone. You learn how to create intrigue in othe people’s minds.
Ready to take yourself to the next level?
Then it’s time to do a little personal investing and join the Modern Elegance, Simplified course.
Learn all the skills necessary to become the classiest woman in the room.
- 20+ Etiquette rules all elegant women should know.
- How to dress like an elegant woman.
- Elegant tips I’ve learned from the Royal Family.
- How to command attention in a classy way.
- How to be elegant in a toxic situation.
- 50 Ways to be elegant each day.
- 7 ways to boost your intelligence.
- 5 ways to be more sophisticated
- Hobbies elegant women have
- 10 ways to look polished every day
- How to be graceful like a Princess
- …and more!